So match has a new member. Now normally folks I would never plug a dating site however outside of the 300 plus E-mails (no joke) I come home to each night from the men swearing that I am their soulmate based upon my photos and brief description of what Im looking for in a mate. Or the men that accuse me of being a Nigerian scammer who has stolen the pictures of some bikini model named Andrea Cox, the site really isnt that bad:) What does break my heart however are the amount of men who actually say why would you want to date a guy like me?! This truly makes me sad. I hold so much space in my heart for these men. The truth is what Im finding out is that SEVERAL men have been emotionally wounded by seemingly Un conscious women that have cheated on them or taken them to the cleaners financially:( I have heard this more than just a few times and it really breaks my heart. It seems that when they meet a woman who is of their desire physically, has a solid career and is spiritually centered it causes them to revert back to an Im not good enough mind set. What Im finding is that this really makes it difficult for these men to become the type of man that is willing to lose himself in a woman who has an open heart and is connected to her desires about what she wants in a man and out of life in general. I guess its back to the drawing board. One thing I am certain of. I will continue to be patient with an open heart and listening ears. Most importantly I will show up in an honest respectful manner that I would desire him to show up as also
Posted on: Sat, 19 Apr 2014 02:38:19 +0000