So this is the song that my Dad and I danced to at my wedding, just a little over a year ago.... it kinda makes me sad to hear it now, but I wont shed anymore tears over it. You see I havent talked to my father in MONTHS, we have only talked maybe twice in the past year since my wedding. We didnt have an argument or anything like that, its just how its always been. I kept trying and trying over years and years to have a father/daughter relationship with him...you know the ones that you see in the movies, or even that some of your other family members might share with their own Dads......but I have learned that you cant force things to happen, and that relationships are two sided, two people trying to make it work and not just one...sometimes you have to LET IT GO and realize that you have done your best and just cant do anymore....I can honestly say now that life has been a lot less painful learning to let it go......this way there is no more being disappointed as to why he isnt involved in my or my childrens lives as I know what to expect now, no more being hurt as I dont expect anything from him anymore, not even for him to love me like I wish he would. When you to learn to lower your expectations to a realistic state, based on past experiences, you will no longer be disappointed, you will start to experience no more hurt and no more pain. MY WISH for my Father is for him to know how much I do love him, that I think of him all the time and that he is missed. My wish for YOU by sharing this story is to realize that sometimes even the people we love will not love you back the same way we need or want to be loved and thats ok. You will be ok. Time truly does heal...IF you learn to let it go. https://youtube/watch?v=zGB7IWklW3s
Posted on: Tue, 21 Oct 2014 18:17:31 +0000
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