So this weekend, me and my mom were chatting about Xenophobia, especially for reasons such as they are taking our women... And then we spoke about why black South African women end up marrying other African men from other countries instead of their own Xhosa or Tswana brothers... So I thought I would share... the reason is this... Usually, when an African man, from Nigeria or Zimbabwe etc approaches a woman, he has a PLAN and he has a JOB!!!! Hell usually come onto her like this excuse me Miss, Hi, my name is Mark. And Id like to take you out sometime and get to know you... Then hell take you out a few times, and hell tell you exactly what his intentions with you are. And hell share with you what his plan and vision is in life, where he is going, what he wants to do and how he will make it happen. And after a few months, hell tell you he wants to marry you, when he wants to marry you, why he wants to marry you and how he is going to make it happen!!! And if you say yes, he goes and makes it happen... And honey, every woman likes a PLAN!!! And then when a Xhosa guy approaches you, hell be on some eish.... umhle joe! uhlala phi?... and then youll give him attention, and youll get to know each other.. Oh, and to him, a date is you coming over to his house (where he lives with his mama) and eating hot chips and bread... Then you date him for a few months and he never really outlines what his intentions are with you... And when you ask him, he says something like ndifina ukuba nawe mahn baby... Lol.... And then four years down the line, still he says nothing about marriage or a future with you.... Infact he doesnt talk about his own future either... And when you mention it, he says youre putting pressure on me... Lol... But yeah.... thats why, some black South African women love them African brothers honey.... To all my black South African young brothers.... Please do not take offense.. The things I have said here are a huge generalisation... So please dont take them to heart... I am just illustrating a point... Ive known (and still know) some amazing Xhosa brothers out there, who have a PLAN and a JOB!!!!
Posted on: Mon, 04 Aug 2014 11:39:11 +0000
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