Some girls are pretty funny oh... You cant wait for a guy in Nigeria to get a good job after School but you can wait 8 years for a guy in the Uk to come to Nigeria for you. They cant find a faithful guy in Nigeria but they wanna marry a guy abroad that they dont even know what hes doing over there. They forget that most guys and ladies hide their true colour behind the phone. They hide their lifestyle behind their BBM, Facebook, whatsapp and phone calls. So that the person will not know anything about their wayward lifestyle. You are in Nigeria and you are claiming to have a partner in UK, US, South Africa, Dubai and in most cases youve never met this prince charming before. You better be real with your common sense. Some are here in Nigeria sleeping with different men and living a wayward lifestyle and each time their so called partner calls from abroad, they act like a saint. You chat with him like a saint. The guy in UK, USA, South Africa, Dubai that you are claiming you wanna marry. You dont know what kind of business hes doing or the kind of lifestyle he lives over there. You dont know what evil things he has involved himself. And you too, you are here in Nigeria hiding behind your phone or laptop. You are dreaming that you and the guy will get married when he comes to Nigeria or maybe you have plans to go and meet him there for marriage. But it is when you start living together that youll start seeing the reality of life. It is when you start living together that you begin to see devil at work. It is when you start living together that you begin to see their true picture. By then it will be too late for you to turn back to that God-fearing jobless man that you took for granted. By then it will be too late for you to return back to that decent and humble girl you jilted. Because God must have provided something better for him/ her. Always think of tomorrow when you are making a decision today. Dont plan a future with somebody you dont really know. A good relationship is not based on the length of time you have spent together, but based on the foundation you built together. Luke 6:48 Im not against you dating someone abroad, so dont get me wrong, but please take your brain along with you when you do it. Agreed
Posted on: Sun, 28 Dec 2014 21:22:04 +0000