Some of us will avoid being honest with someone to spare hurting their feelings when their actions are causing us to hurt. Be careful getting into the habit of sacrificing how you feel and your integrity because you fear hurting someone elses feelings. Tell them If you need space like an astronaut. Tell them why you need space. Tell them what it is they are doing that inspires you to feel that way. Since no one can make you do anything or feel a certain way, let them know its something you are striving to work on. Give them the opportunity to ask what it is they can do to support you feeling positive around them. If they dont take that opportunity to ask what they can do to support you then you know you may be dealing with a person who either doesnt care enough to help you feel safe and important or a person who doesnt know how. Either way you teach people how to treat you based on how you respond to their actions. I trust this is valuable information. That is all...transparency on...
Posted on: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 16:02:53 +0000
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