Some people forgive themselves everything and condemn everyone else. Some condemn everything about themselves and find extenuating circumstances for others. Some do not forgive themselves for anything and forgive nothing. And others forgive everything and (almost) everyone. To love and forgive is to be both demanding and indulgent. This is a matter of balance. An Islamic prophetic tradition says: ‘Find seventy excuses for your brother (sister), and if you cannot find any, imagine that there is one excuse you do not know.’ [Bayhaqi] This suggestion echoes the Christian maxim ‘Love thy neighbour as thyself,’ and ‘Thou shalt not judge.’ It is about loving and suspending one’s judgement. This does not mean accepting everything that others do (in which case there would be no love), but it does mean taking the view that their mistakes or sins do not tell us the whole truth about them. In Measure for Measure, Shakespeare suggests that we ‘Condemn the fault and not the actor of it’ if we wish to ensure that we do not punish the wrong person. All the monotheisms recommend that we make that distinction: human beings can judge acts, but only God is in a position to judge human beings. When human beings turn into judges, they invent not the hereafter on earth but hell.” — “The Quest for Meaning” - Tariq Ramadan, pp. 201
Posted on: Thu, 11 Jul 2013 09:04:53 +0000
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