Sometimes I feel I love Him!! Question: Salam,i need ur help n guide, im v much tense, i had a frndshp wd a boy since 5 years, he claims 2 love me n promisd me 2 mary me..hm kbi ni mile only phone pe bt hti h msgs k thru,nt cals,he is an enginr he perfomed haj last year.. m us ki adict hn ya i lv hm cnt judge till now,smtmx i feel i love him. Mj se phle wo ksi lrki ko like krta ta,he told me abt her,us k bd b ak lrki us ki frnd ri...few days ago us ne mje fb paswrd dia that u can..q k use pta ta k i ll nvr chk..bcx mje ase kam pasnd ni,ak din mne us ka acount opn kia to he have too many grl frndx,i askd him bt he told a lie r phr man gya n promise kia k nxt time asa ni o ga,mne us se in touch rhna chor dia h bcz i came 2 knw that it x a sin..but us ki ab b whe activitx hn...wo ksi se flirt ni krta mean shadi k waday krna but as a frnd btn krta h grls se..i viewed his chats he say every friend that he ll marry me n he loves me,im so much confused.is he sincere with me r not? what should i do? kindly help I said 2 him if u realy love me sent ur parents n he promised dat in next year i ll do ths Answer: Wasalam Sister i can give a big reply. But i will give a very short reply and save your time. It will be tough to swallow. This guy is a liar and a deceiver and there is no use of marrying such a guy. Secondly, you will get married to ONLY and ONLY the one whom Allah has written for you. So why are u talking to him and having a relationship? If hes written for you hell get married only to you and none else. If not, then even if u keep talking for ten years and even if he promises you thousand times, he will not get married to you. If u want a guarantee, i can guarantee you that this guy will not marry you. Thats all i can say. Get rid of him. Do istighfaar. Stop deceiving your parents. How will your dad feel when he comes to know that his daughter talking to a guy? And know that even if u get married to this guy, his character is doubtful. He is talking to girls and having girl friends before marriage, what will happen after marriage? Its amazing that you still trust this guy. You are talking to him since 5 years, having a haram relationship, know that such a relationship even if converted into marriage will not bring much blessing. [Shared via Youth Club PK for the general benefit]
Posted on: Sun, 17 Aug 2014 10:21:16 +0000
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