Sooooo many times this year Ive read in an article or one of my friends has told me Dont try to figure it out, understanding wont make you feel any better. Only....understanding completely makes me feel better. No, it doesnt change the situation but it makes me feel okay having a legit explanation. Like with a breakup, knowing exactly why the relationship didnt work out wont stop you from missing your ex or feeling rejected but it will help you emotionally move on being able to logically wrap your mind around why they cant be the best person for you. Or if a friend says something impulsively cruel to you; the words cant be taken back and you are feeling hurt regardless, but knowing whats currently hurting her helps you let go and forgive your friend. Empathy is such a beautiful part of life and it is needed for peace and forgiveness and love. If you have a craving to understand why, run after that confusion and ask questions and analyze and figure it out! If youre like me and gain energy from analyzing things, you dont need to listen to all those people telling you that understanding will never help you. For me, it definitely does!! :)
Posted on: Sun, 28 Dec 2014 16:13:28 +0000
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