Special post....... FINDING A SOULMATE After much deliberation over not to write a post about love and relationship I come to understand that our lives is basically surrounded by love and relationships, now the fact is how do we treat these words I love you. Those three little words can convey so much -- and uttering them at the wrong time could convey that youre a bit needy. It may not be a dealbreaker, but it is a big red flag If you know what you are looking for, the task of finding your soulmate will be much easier and the journey will accelerate. Love is like a puzzle, so you seek a partner who provides a snug fit, not an identical copy of you. The more you both share as you discover each other, the greater your joy will be. You are looking for a partner and a friend. The physics of attraction are universal. If you focus on bringing something or someone into your life, you will attract him or her. This guide will help you paint a portrait, to define the attributes and qualities of your ideal soulmate. This exercise is a breeze: its all about you! Most fascinating, you will be surprised at what you will learn about yourself. A deeply felt relationship will grow more beautiful and substantial over the course of your lifetime. Your team of two will face, overcome and survive the challenges life presents. Use your wish list wisely. When you can answer, What will I bring to the table? you can define the best person to call your partner. This exercise must be an open and honest conversation with yourself. It cannot be done in a hurry. Spend as much time as it takes to flesh out the desired attributes of your partner. Make your list on paper. Hand write it, make it as long as you want and get specific. Focus. Take a break and come back to see your list in a different light. Do some of your requirements strike you as shallow or leftover from an old you? Discard them. Above all, make sure you havent forgotten a single thing on your list. Once you have envisioned the whole character of your soulmate, your wish list will offer an interesting reflection of you. You will know the right way for you to offer your request to the Universe. Here are a few questions to help guide your exploration of your soulmate list: WORK Does your soulmate work? Is he/she dependable? How does he/she value work? Will he be a good provider? The importance that we place on employment often reflects dependability. As you raise a family, how committed will he/she be? LEISURE How does he/she spend his free time hours? How do you? Is he/she project based, fixing this and maintaining that? Does he/she hunger for creative expression or for adventure and travel? Is he/she more of a homebody or a couch potato? Is he/she dependent on you for fun or does he/she have his own interests? How a man or woman spends their leisure time is often an indicator of his potential performance as a father or mother. DRIVE What is his/her general disposition? What is yours? Is he/she a go-getter? Is he/she reserved and cautious? Does he/she look before he leaps? COMMITMENT Does he/she keep his or her word? Does he/she follow through and do what he/she says he/she is going to do? Does he/she complete a project? POSESSIONS What does your mate own? What does he/she cherish? What is most important to him/her? How a man/woman cares for his or her possessions is often an indicator of his potential as a manager. Does he/she keep his belongings in good condition? HEALTH How does your mate regard his body? How does he/she treat his temple? Is he/she hoping to be around awhile? And is he/she doing what it takes? SELF-ESTEEM How do you feel about yourself? How will your mate feel about him/herself? In life, we all go through ups and downs, at various times. In general, what is his/her outlook on life? Sunny or gloomy? What does he/she respect? SPIRITUALITY What is your spiritual core? How do you honor Life? How should he/she? It may be very important to you to find a man or woman with the same religion. A deep spiritual sense, of another belief, may be just as good. CHALLENGES & VICTORY How does your man/woman face uncertainty? When times are tough, how does he/she react? Fear is a normal and everyday part of life. Insecurity is nothing to be embarrassed about. Conversely, how does he/she win? With grace and humility? Or does he/she strut and gloat? Victory and defeat are fascinating aspects of a persons character. FUN How does he/she define fun? Does he/she laugh? What type of humor makes him/her laugh loudest? And you? Do you prefer a partner who brings a healthy dose of sarcasm? Is his/her humor clean or dirty? Is it offered in kindness or out of spite? TRADITIONS You can learn much from ones respect and understanding of tradition. Are family or religious customs important? Does he/she hold dearly certain practices that are handed down over time? YOUR SOULMATE WISHLIST Realistically, you may not find a bulls-eye, a man/ woman who meets every one of your requirements. Aim for a majority, not perfection. When you honor your list and refuse to settle, you may wait longer, but you will be happier in the long run. Dont give in to loneliness and choose the wrong mate. Your list is a road map that leads you in the right direction. It will help you manifest and conjure. Finding a soulmate is an exercise in compatibility. As co-captains in Life, you will sail your ship over calm and stormy seas. Do you work well together? Yes! You are soulmates!
Posted on: Fri, 25 Oct 2013 12:03:46 +0000
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