Stop Doing What I Dont Want You to Do! June 4, 2014 CONSIDER changing focus from all the things not wanted in the request. As we express the things we do not want, we increase them. In other words, as you say you want them to stop....all those things listed have an increased focus, which is going to increase them. CONSIDER also that what you deem as important may not be deemed as important by another. CONSIDER that as you ALLOW and EMBRACE others with all their warts and bumps, you HELP to RELEASE their need for the things that you have been reeling against. In other words...as you JUDGE them as wrong in doing something that you would rather they did not, they BEGIN to push harder into that area. When you simply accept them as they are, WITH all the things they DO, they then may BEGIN to RELEASE the need to rebel (which is a lot of what that which is going on with the younger people, whether they recognize it or not), and may then BE OPEN to choosing to TAKE responsibility (53) for study and constructive things. CONSIDER-ALLOW-EMBRACE-HELP-RELEASE-JUDGE-BEGIN-BE-OPEN-TAKE-53-NOW-PERFECT-BE. And, regarding relationsihps...I personally like DIVINE-TOGETHER as a relationship enhancer. It can be used as a prefix for other Switchwords. I like CONTAIN-----CANCEL-CLEAR-CONCEDE-CONFESS for helping end conflicts. I like TRICKLE-TINY-SWEET-LOVE-WITH-MAGNANIMITY for bringing sharing (TRICKLE) of caring and kindness (TINY-SWEET), and harmonizing well with generosity (ending pettiness)(MAGNANIMITY). When we CONSIDER that ego is the part of US that starts the arguments, that wants to (has to) always BEright, and we CHOOSE to Bypass the need to prove our points, were right (theyre wrong), make them see things our way (which they cant and never will), we FIND ourselves in a calmer more loving relationship. When one feels a need to defend ones perspective on something, it may be wise to take a step back and look more closely, asking this question...Is it more important that I GET my point across here, or that this relationship stay in a positive, loving space? Because if you CHOOSE to make it more important to GET your point across, to prove yourself right (and them wrong), to win the argument (making them lose), to validate yourself (invalidate them), then you are not putting the relationship ahead of your ego. QUIET to quiet the ego. Bypass to bypass an unwanted situation. BE to be unaffected by ridicule and negative or contrary energy. CHOOSE-QUIET-Bypass-BE. Kat Taken from Kat Thoughts at Blue Iris Learning Center: kt.blueiris.org
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