Stop being envious of your friends and their good boyfriends. Which one sounds more enviable: your friend who came back to announce proudly that her boyfriend had taken her to a five star hotel for lunch or your colleague in the office who will tell you that she and her husband will spend their Christmas holiday in London and later move to the Louvre Museum Paris? Sometimes you need to eat at the Local Canteen Buka to be able to afford the latter. Don’t be carried away by what good boyfriends do. Be concerned about what potentially good husbands do. Marriage is a life-long contract that must be adequately prepared for. There is one thing you ladies never seem to get about us men. Our character is not so much different from the six-inch mini cobra dangling in-between our legs. The character of most men is just like the manhood before and after ejaculation. He will do anything to get what he wants. If the man you intend to marry does not care so much about the future but can provide you with all the fun you need for today, then something is wrong. If you visit your boyfriend, who is educated, and realizes that he has no single book in his room, you need to ask questions. If your boyfriend is not concerned about his career and that of yours, then think twice. You should not be happy when all the fun and gifts are coming from his parent’s pocket. They will not be there forever Always remember that investing in the future is crucial because that’s where we will live the rest of our lives. This is not to say one should to so concerned about the future that we cease to live today. I want to be a good husband and not a “good” boyfriend. I have to be real with life and with you in this relationship. On this reality shall we build our marriage, and the gates of divorce shall not prevail against it.
Posted on: Tue, 16 Dec 2014 16:53:01 +0000
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