SỰ CHỌN LỰA hẳn rằng ai trong chúng ta mỗi ngày đều phải đối mặt với sự chọn lựa. ta chọn yêu thương hay ghen ghét, ta chọn thù hận hay bao dung, ta chọn sự thật hay lừa dối, ta chọn niềm vui hay nỗi buồn, chọn chia sẻ hay giữ điều gì đó cho riêng mình, ta chọn cô đơn hay cởi mở...... tất cả những gì ta đang có đều là những kết quả mà ta đã chọn. trong giao tiếp cũng vậy. chúng ta cũng có những lựa chọn. điều quan trọng là sự chọn lựa đúng đánh sao cho khi kết thúc câu chuyện rồi cả hai vẫn có thể cảm thấy vui vẻ hay it nhất là sự thoải mãi trong lòng. các bạn hãy xem hai đoạn hội thoại dưới đây cùng 1 lời bình bằng tiếng Anh. cố gắng đọc hiểu dể nâng cao vốn tiếng Anh các bạn nhé. khi gặp các từ mới. trước khi tra từ điển hãy thử đoán nghĩa của nó trước trong bối cảnh của đoạn văn. như thế các bạn sẽ dễ dàng ghi nhớ hơn. - Anna: You seem upset about something. Is everything okay? - Moy: Everything is fine. - Anna: You’re sure? You look upset. - Moy: (thinking, why is she asking me how? I feel? She shouldn’t ask me so many questions.) no, there’s no problem. (she look away.) - Anna: (thinking to herself, I’m just trying to help her and to show her that I’m interested in her.) well I hope everything’s okay. Remember you can always talk to me. - Moy: (thinking to herself, why should I talk to her?) okay. - Anna: (thinking to herself. I hope she talks to somebody. She feel better if she gets her feeling out.) she you tomorrow. Anna believes that it is good to let emotions out rather than to keep them in. she, like many Americans, thinks that people can feel better after they have talked about their feelings. Anna doesn’t realize that her questions her question are making Moy uncomfortable. Moy probably thinks that it is strange for someone who is not close friend to ask these cultural differences and may feel that Moy’s rejecting her efforts to make her feel better. In some cultures, people try to hide feelings of sadness or anger because they don’t want to burden another person with their problems. In some others, controlling one’s emotions is the sign of a strong person. In the following conversation, Moy still doesn’t tell Anna how she feeling, but she explains why she doesn’t. as a result, both Anna and Moy are more comfortable this time. - Anna: you seem upset about something. Is everything. Is everything okay? - Moy: Everything’s fine. - Anna: are you sure? You look upset. - Moy: well, something is bothering me, but I’m not used to talking about my feelings. - Anna: you can always talk to me if you want. You might feel better if you do. - Moy: thanks, but in my culture we don’t usually talkabout our feelings with other. - Anna: that’s hard for me to understand, but I’m glad you explained it to me. I hope you feel better soon. - Moy: thanks. I’m sure I will. 4 Today English
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