THE ROOM FOR YOUR FUTURE WIFE. The woman was removed from the man to leave the man’s body by living inside the man. There is an innate feeling in almost every woman, the need to feel a warm assurance from a special man in their lives. The woman may rise to the highest pinnacle this life has to offer but when she encounters her man, she instinctively gravitates towards desiring kindliness, protection and nourishment from her man because that is where she came from. It is no surprise that God tells the man in Ephesians 5:28 “In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife, loves himself” A single guy with marital aspirations, needs to have this foresight and to go ahead and make room for his wife in his whole life. Many guys get married and continue living the single life of a bachelor and still desire the benefits of being married. Your woman is not supposed to be lonely even when she is alone. God expects you to accord your lady the adequate space and place in your kingdom. Your damsel will not just thrive, you must cultivate the atmosphere for her to flourish. The heart in your body doesn’t stop pumping when you go to sleep, it is always doing what it was designed to do to help you to function at your optimum. The day it stops, is the day you die. The same is true for her, there must be a constant that she can count on. She craves for that warmth that emanates from the corridors of your heart. This nice sensational heat should flow from the romantic oven that has been ignited by your fellowship with God. As you commune with your first love, your natural nature is effaced from your system and he gets to school you with the responsibility that lies ahead of you. This love needs to flow from within you and it will compel her to follow you willingly because it has that mesmeric spark that appeals to her femininity. You are not seeking to subdue her into submission; you are going out of your way to serve the one who is a willing captive in the prison walls of your heart-your woman. She can never break out of her cell because she will be making a choice to walk into stone cold misery. The room in your heart is also a place of safety and security. Your lady is supposed to know that she can crash there because you have quixotic pillows that will cushion her from whatever emotional malady she is going through. There is no limit when it comes to the health of your body, when you are ill you treat it; is that the same principle you are planning to apply when it comes to your wife? You not only go out of your way, you go all the way to feel with her and you glean from God the power to administer love without limits. Loving your wife is an honourable thing. It is your way of saying thank you to God for selecting you to be a custodian of such beauty and structure. Many men would give a lot to be in your place, please do not take it for granted. The more you love your wife the more she glows; the more she glows the more your relationship grows. #By_TonnyGobanga
Posted on: Thu, 11 Dec 2014 13:39:01 +0000