THE ROYAL WAIT FOR A MATE (5) THE ALTERNATIVES Alternative one is panicking as one grows older,oh the biological clock is ticking,oh l have to prove my manhood,oh...! Oh,as l see the way marriage is not working let me get children and bring them up! Were children meant to be brot up by single parents ever? Was that Gods plan? And this isnt peculiar to only sisters. Even men r catching up. Im talking to the one who CHOOSES this way as an alternative to the Godly way. It isnt the royal way brethren. Children are meant to be brot up by two parents. And when God finally comes thru to gv u a partner,its a recipe for disaster. Some of us are so delicate that if someone wonders if well ever gv birth,we go out of our way to prove we can! Learn to ignore some insults. No one can reduce ur value without ur permission! And royalty is beyond undermining! Dont evn cry b4 them but hold ur head high and walk away! Dont evn argue with them or exchange insults! Royalty cannot be re-defined. Its a state and nt a condition. I rem when l was new in salvation l was taught to pray for and submit to God my maternal instincts bcoz they were the strongest temptation for sisters. I rem being told by pple as years were rolling by that l shld get a child who wld take care of me in my old age. Once l was even called selfish coz l didnt want to get a child to share my riches. Ai! Its nt easy to escape the devils snares. Yet we must! Its a race and we must win! Like l said earlier am disabled and theres the fear of whatll become of u. I think God helped me by keeping my mum till l got a man. And we pwds tend to imagine that ur child cant reject u the way others do bt is that true? Its a sugar-coated lie. Evn ur child can reject u,esp if u r strange. I once even asked what methodology l was meant to use to get this child l was persistently being asked to get! Cld l get him thru drinking tea,as Christians r known for that! He he he! Any other methodology wasnt allowed a princess like me! And despite my age lm trusting God for triplets now that am married...stand with me. If Sarahs story in the bible is not true then lets see! I didnt go having children coz l feared the Lord and l wanted to remain faithful to Him:Let God be true and every man a liar! I desire my own children and children r a gift from God,do l nd any other argument? It is enough! Christian men who are abstinent have their own temptations. In cultural setting where they r meant to be promiscuous,with the societys approval,being abstinent may make society question ur manhood. The devil uses the male ego to tempt such bros. U get to a point where u want to prove that u r functional. Many female neibas jeer at the lack of female visitors and evn provoke bros. Some sisters r also terrible. They have no boundaries where bros and their houses r concerned. Royalty cant behave in any which way bt are conditioned to know their boundaries. Without boundaries we r just ordinary. We dont stand out at all yet we are born to lead by example. Be what u were meant to. The alternatives r not ur portion child of the Most High!
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 18:08:21 +0000