THE WHOLE STORY Friday afternoon, my family, including my wheelchair bound Badass Wounded Warrior husband, retired MSG Mark C. Allen, and some friends went to Stone Mountain Park for the local Christmas festivities. It was cold - really cold. In order to keep Mark warm, he had my oh-so-manly red wool peacoat draped across his lap, his friends leather coat draped backward over his chest and a golf towel (yes, a golf towel) fashioned as a scarf. It was absolutely ridiculous. Look, Im not above wearing pajama pants to Walmart at 8:00am, but even I wouldnt want to be out and about looking like he did. Why not just put a coat on him?, you may ask. Well, because of Marks brain injury, his arms are contracted with limited range of motion. Make sense? Didnt think so. Try this: hold your arms like a Barbie doll, with elbows bent at a 90 degree angle. Pretend you can only raise your arms halfway above your head and halfway out to the side. Now, grab a coat and try to put it on. Now you get it. Back to Stone Mountain...after just an hour and a half at the park, and only participating in the train ride, it was too much. Too cold for Mark, and he had to leave, missing the lights, the Christmas parade, the 4D movie, the Christmas musical and above all, quality time with his friends and family. All because he lacked something as simple as a coat. When I got home that night, I started on the research. I came across several websites with adaptive lightweight jackets, but they were mainly geared toward the elderly. I mean, Im a child of the 80s and I appreciated a good Members Only jacket back in the day, but Im just about 100% sure that my 41 year old husband wouldnt be a huge fan of the asthetics, not to mention the lack of warmth. And so I searched and searched and searched. Then, I stumbled across the Koolway Sports website and about burst into tears. They offer heavy duty jackets for people with the EXACT physical limitations of my husband. Shortened backs to avoid bunching in the wheelchair, zippers from cuffs to waistband for easy on and off and removable blanket bottoms to keep his legs warm. I mean, it was PERFECT! As I researched more, I learned that the coats are custom made to each recipient, and are therefore significantly more than your average coat, running about $600/each, but looked to be worth every penny. I made a post on Facebook, excited to find the coat, and then you guys took over. You were constantly commenting, and equally excited, wanting to help me buy this coat for my husband! I was (and am) overwhelmed by your generosity. Im admittedly bad at accepting help - I know this, but you guys were so amazingly persistent, that I set up a GoFundMe account to accept contributions. The goal was $600. Within 24 hours, you had donated triple that - $1,860. That was enough for THREE of these custom made coats, so I started reaching out to my other wounded warrior friends to see who needed some warm and snuggly help. As of last night, I had spoken to Mark & Kelly Eakins on behalf of their badass wounded warrior son, Steven and Alexis Abraham Vitale on behalf of her badass husband, Doug. I met both of these families while our loved ones were hospitalized together, recovering from their injuries and they are very near and dear to my heart. They are family. But that wasnt enough for you, my AMAZING and GENEROUS friends. You werent ready to stop giving. And so, at your urging, I reached out to a FOURTH badass wounded warrior family, Yuriy and Aimee Pierog-Zmysly, so see if they could use a coat. Since they live in cold Chicago, she graciously accepted the opportunity. And so, I set up another GoFundMe, around 1:00pm today. The goal was $600. As of right now, 9:44pm, you have donated almost double that - $1,133. So now, we have enough to buy that FOURTH coat for Yuriy and just about enough to buy a FIFTH coat, for yet another warrior! Im planning to identify a FIFTH and maybe even a SIXTH warrior tomorrow, and will keep the same GoFundMe account going. Yall. I dont even know what to say. You are seriously THE BEST. You know me, you may not have seen me in years, but you know me. You dont, however, know my friends, yet you still, without hesitation spent your hard earned money to help them out. I just dont even know what you say to accurately convey my emotions. My life is hard. I cry a lot. More than any of you know. I cry because I miss my husband, because my kids miss out on their dad, because my fellow wounded warrior wives are in pain, because I heard a song on the radio that made me think of him, or because I accidentally sprayed his cologne and the memories all came flooding back. The last few days, however, Ive been crying different tears. Happy tears. Humbled tears. Honored tears. Excited tears. Tears of joy. These tears, these happy tears - the ones that dont come nearly as often as the sad ones - these tears are because of you. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU. gofundme/i4tupo
Posted on: Wed, 03 Dec 2014 03:03:10 +0000
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