THIS IS FOR YOU WHO MADE MY BOYFRIEND CRY. Sir, if you are reading this I hope youll be sensitive enough and never bully someone again. My boyfriend has a huge baggage from his past. His biological parents separated when he was just several months old. He has an older sister but he never had the chance to see her. He grew up with his dad (a retired soldier) and his step mom. When he was 15, his dad was put to prison for homicide. From then on, his fathers pension was cut off which means that he and her step mom will have to find another financial source. He has to go to school with 5 pesos or none at all. He has to make promissory notes for his tuition fees (private school in highschool). He cant make his school requirements. Their neighbours gossiped about their family. Few of his friends betrayed him. The situation discouraged him a lot. He sort of retreated to himself but instead of committing suicide, he found computer games as an escape. We met a year after that. I was 14, he was 17. He is shy. He has low self-esteem. He has no self-confidence. He loves silence and darkness maybe because it gives him the peace of mind he has been craving. He is choosy when it comes to friends. He is afraid of betrayal. I spent a lot of time trying to cheer him up, trying to make him happy. I asked my dad a huge favor if he can help him with his financial needs. My dad understands his situation so he agreed. We took the SASE together and we both passed. We left our hometown for good leaving the sad memories behind. We live together. Yes,we live in the same room. With my parents consent of course. He found new friends in IC who taught him how to smile and laugh again. He started to regain his confidence. We were happy until hewhomustnotbenamed started poisoning the well. He spread rumors that my bf is a user (using people) and they must beware of him. My boyfriend has few guy and gay friends but that doesnt mean he uses the latter nor allow them to use him.(i had the chance to hangout with them) Drop the stereotype. They respect each other, they know their boundaries. Using people for money? My parents provide us enough money for our needs so why would he taint his image for that? So what if we live together? Whats the big deal about that? A lot of people get pregnant even though they dont live with their boyfriends. I am already 20y/o, we were together for six years now, i am not pregnant and im a graduating student. I really dont want to post about this but I cant stand seeing him get hurt like that.Its devastating to see someone who is trying to build himself again collapse halfway. Sir, you have no idea what you are doing and how much pain you are giving. You only know him by name, how dare you to judge him like that. He even considered you as a friend. Bullying a person like him is like crushing his life to pieces again and you have no right to do that. I have no other choice but to post anonymously. I cant tell this straightly to hewhomustnotbenamed. He is influential and I have no plans of extending another semester in school or worse get kicked out. I know posting this wont fix it but I just have to express what i feel. #ladybug
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 08:42:04 +0000
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