THOUGHTS ON BETRAYAL: Betrayal in relationships is one of the hardest things to deal with in Life. And in my experience, eventually, one way or another, we will all be betrayed by those we are close to. I’m not talking about Infidelity, that’s for another discussion; but the willful disregard for the interests, well-being, or safety of your partner—especially after having promised be there in support and care for your partner. What I like to term “the willful intent to do harm” to those we are in relationship with. This lack of respect—contempt if you will—is one of the most harmful and subtle of betrayals. It may be the result of careless lack of sensitivity, simple inconsiderateness, or lack of empathy. In other cases, it may be because of one partners underlying resentments. Nonetheless, it is betrayal. . There are, indeed, those betrayals that occur without explicit promises having been made. It is implied when one is in relationship, whether simply friendly, intimate, business, or marriage, that there certain conditions that must be met, and if not met, then the relationship is over. As an example, it is assumed that if a friend borrows money, that it will be paid back. Especially because it is a friend. If the friend does not return the money, or ignores your requests to repay the loan, or worse, insults you for asking, clearly the partnership is done. Count dear, those near to you, that never engage in this behaviour, and hold them close. The others? As long as they take responsibility, and make amends, then the relationship can move on. If not, the sooner one realizes it the better. And the happier and freer you will be in the end.
Posted on: Fri, 01 Aug 2014 19:19:44 +0000
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