The Difference Between Healthy and Unhealthy Shame Every day we encounter two different kinds of shame and its critical that we know the difference. There is a type of shame that is normal and healthy. For example, if I lose or break something that belongs to someone else, I feel disappointed about my mistake. I wish I had not been so careless or negligent. I am sorry, but I can ask for forgiveness, receive it and go on with my life. Healthy shame reminds us that we are imperfect human beings with weaknesses and limitations. It reminds us that we need God. Unfortunately, when the healthy shame doesnt stop there, it becomes unhealthy and poisonous. When a person doesnt ask for or receive forgiveness, they can punish themselves and start to hate who they are. Dont spend your life in this position. Remember your rightful position as an heir and child of God (see Romans 8:17). Unhealthy shame will make you forget who you are in Christ, but healthy shame will remind you that youre nothing without Him. Today, ask God to help you discern the difference. Prayer Starter: Lord, I dont want to live under the weight of unhealthy shame. Help me to remember how much You love me. Because You have forgiven me, I dont need to punish myself.
Posted on: Mon, 03 Nov 2014 12:08:40 +0000
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