The ONLY way to improve your life is to take ownership of where you are and acknowledging that your current circumstance are a direct result of your planning and actions. Over the last few months I have received the most feedback (good and bad ) when I have discussed people who view their lives through the “victim” filter. The ones who say: Its not my fault. They [or it] did it to me. When you understand what the feeling of victimization really is, where it comes from and how it affects people, you will discover that it is even more widespread and debilitating than you might think. The primary source of feeling like a victim is the feeling of powerlessness, and because we dont like feeling that we are powerless, we tend to blame someone or something for causing that feeling. The reason feeling victimized is so debilitating is that it undermines your ability to do anything about your situation. If you are having difficulties in any area of your life, such as relationships or money, and you experience yourself as powerful and in control of your life, you can devise a strategy to improve your situation. And if one solution doesnt work, you can learn from your experience and try again. But if you have a victim mentality, if you feel powerless to affect your circumstances… you are likely to feel that the world is doing it to you and that there is nothing you can do about it. Well, here’s the truth… It’s not the Economy’s fault It’s not the Presidents fault It’s not the Democrats or the Republicans It’s not your Company’s or their Compensation Plan’s fault. It’s not your Un-supportive Wife or Family’s fault It’s not your Boss or Coworkers fault What you need to realize is that there are others who are succeeding in the very same environment that you may be struggling in! When you take ownership of that fact and stop making excuses as to why you arent doing better, you can finally breakthrough and start moving forward in a powerful way! Once I “Got” this…. My entire life changed! #myntmind #success
Posted on: Mon, 19 May 2014 00:55:49 +0000
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