The anchors on those fingers? Yeah…being loved does that. Feeling secure, knowing you belong--it anchors a person. And when a person is securely anchored, it creates a sense of balance. Kind like when I learned to play basketball…feet shoulder width apart, knees slightly bent, weight over both feet, arms held up in front--this was known as the triple threat position…this balanced and anchored position put a person in optimal position to pass, shoot or dribble. Being loved in a meaningful relationship does that in our lives…we are better able to tackle challenges, have difficult conversations, and move forward effectively. Our brains do better, we function better, we can solve problems better, and we move through the world more effectively when we have meaningful, life giving relationships in our lives. Science is demonstrating that to us objectively and clearly. For the complete article: bit.ly/ScienceLove
Posted on: Wed, 10 Dec 2014 16:42:16 +0000