The apocryphal story is told of a man at the race tracks who sees a rabbi blessing a horse. Figuring the rabbi is close to God, the man places a bet and sure enough the horse wins! Before each successive race, the man observes which horse the rabbi blesses, places his bet and wins. However, even after following the same procedure for the last race, the horse comes in last. The man approaches the rabbi and asks, How come every horse you gave a blessing won except the last horse? The rabbi answers, You need to know the difference between a blessing and a kaddish! (Kaddish is the prayer said on behalf of those who have died.) Most Jews are familiar with the blessing over bread, HaMotzie. However, there are blessings for different types of foods, blessings for mitzvot (commandments) -- i.e., putting on tefillin or lighting Shabbat candles, blessings of thanks -- when one is saved from an accident, blessings for natural phenomena -- seeing a bolt of lightning or hearing thunder, blessings for life events -- the birth of a child or a death. There is even a blessing for after going to the bathroom. Dont laugh -- imagine if you were unable to relieve yourself or unable to stop relieving yourself. You couldnt live! What is a blessing? It is a statement or affirmation that begins Blessed are Thou Lord, our God, King of the Universe... It is not that we have any power to bless God. He is infinite and lacks nothing. What we are doing is recognizing that the Almighty is the source of all blessings. Why do we make blessings? Life is a matter of focus. We can eat and sleep and work and eventually die without ever thinking what life is about or the significance of the moment. A blessing focuses us on the Almighty and our relationship with Him. In the case of food, rather than just tossing the food into our mouth, we focus that this food comes from the Almighty. There are two verses. The first says, The earth and its fullness is the Almightys (Psalm 24:1). The second says, The Heavens belong to God and the earth was given to man (Psalm 115:16). How is this seeming contradiction resolved? Everything belongs to the Almighty. However, after we recognize that fact through making a blessing, we have permission to partake in the goodness (the food) He has given us. There is a blessing said after eating which give thanks to the Almighty for that which He has given us. After hearing someone say a brocha (Hebrew for blessing), those who hear respond, Amen. What is Amen? It is an acronym for God is the faithful King. It is an affirmation that one places his trust in the Almighty. All of us trust in something -- our intelligence, education, money, power. In truth, one can only truly place his trust in the Almighty. As it says in Psalm 20:8, There are those who trust in chariots and those who trust in horses, but we, in the name of our God, call out. There are two ways one can say a brocha. One is by rote with speed and no feeling -- just to fulfill the requirement of making the blessing. The second way is to know the words and concentrate on the meaning of the words and the intention of why you are saying the blessing. Really, the second way is the only way to make a blessing. We just sometimes forget the reason why we make the blessing and how we are supposed to do it. If one makes a blessing with thought and concentration, it is a growth experience. It makes a person more spiritual -- more closely connected to the Almighty -- through recognizing the Source of the good which he receives and through his expressing gratitude for that good. (Just as it is incumbent upon us to thank God for what He has given us, it is important for us to thank our fellow human beings for what they do for us.)
Posted on: Tue, 06 Jan 2015 02:30:00 +0000
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