The biggest problem some of you have when it comes to having a healthy, long lasting and loving relationship is not being able to let go. When you meet someone and you know they are not the one, learn to make the decision to let that relationship go. Because this is what happens when you don’t, that person becomes a might-as-well-person. The might-as-well person is someone you meet and like but you know deep down inside that they are not the one. You just keep them around to keep from being lonely. Please know that the might-as-well person can easily become a person you wish would leave the country and just die before it’s over with. You meet someone you really like and you kind of feel like they may be the right one, you go out to dinner and about 9p your phone rings. You look at your date then your phone, it’s the might-as-well but you can’t take the call. Then after dinner you are at the movies, it’s around 10p, the phone rings again and it the might-as-well, so you send to voicemail, but they start texting. Leaving the movie around 11:30p, the phone rings again and you know if you don’t take the call might-as-well will keep calling. Your date, the one you think is the one, looks at you strange and knows something is up. So you make up a story saying it’s just a friend, a relative or wrong number. After a while this doesn’t work anymore, and the person you thought was the one leaves. Now because you didn’t want to be lonely, you lost the person that was “the one” for the might as well. Keep in mind you may have told them, in so many words, that you are not interested in a serious relationship, but the soul ties have already been developed. But they will not go away easy and it will be a process to get rid of them without drama. This is a process that repeats itself over and over again in a lot of people’s life. You end up developing a reputation as a player, liar, and someone who plays games all because you were not strong enough to wait for the right one. The sad thing is you will become the might-as-well person yourself, because no one will take you seriously. So at the end of the day you have no one to blame but yourself if you are not in a healthy, long lasting, and loving relationship. Some of you have more game then the NBA, and they play at least 92 games a season, but the problem is you never make it to the play offs, because of the might-as-well people in your life.
Posted on: Sat, 15 Jun 2013 22:50:38 +0000