"The ego, indeed is very often a barrier to kindness, as it is our primary shield of protection, and the more we have felt offended in the past, the more when a similar situation to the past ones comes along, we tend to react aggressively, as a means of protection which can easily and quickly become more than a dynamic of self defense: a dynamic of attack through criticism, meanness, even physical violence. This is not the way..., I have learnt my lessons...; the best way to defend oneself when we are confronted to an agression, is to keep silent... We handle up to the level we can handle..., but I guarantee that keeping silent, the limit of the attacking person will be set... After silence..., then dialog will be able to take place again : peaceful, kind and smart dialog of exchange of feelings, emotions, ideas, points of view..., constructive dialog to reach cohesion in the further common actions of both or more protagonists of the dialog. Indeed after the 1st KEY: "SILENCE" as the wisest first reaction to a conflict..., comes the 2nd vital and essential KEY to peace, cohesion, active construction on the common path: "KINDNESS" ! Thank you for having been kind to me and to us all, by sharing this image and the words illustrating it ! Indeed, KINDNESS is contagious ! I wish it even becomes epidemic ! lol! " Peace, Love, Light, KINDNESS for understanding, cohesion & HARMONY ! --Julie Turley Finance --
Posted on: Tue, 16 Jul 2013 08:10:48 +0000
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