The fact that you are ripe for marriage, doesnt mean you should jump into the arms of the next available monster in form of a man, simply because of the desperation for the title of MRS. In this day and age, its advisable that ladies be Independent because, no man wants to have a liability for a wife anymore. If you dont have a source of livelihood, please get one asap before vying for marriage. And when you eventually decide to get married, know what you want in him! As a woman in this day and age, you must understand that:;.... .........There is an inner beauty about a lady who believes in herself, who knows she is capable of achieveing anything she puts her mind to. There is a stunning beauty in the strenght and determination of a lady who follows her own God given path, who isnt easily thrownoff by obstacles along the way. There is a beauty about a lady whose Confidence comes from her wealth of experience as she knows she can fall, pick herself back up, dust her shoulders and move on. Theres nothing more attractive than a lady who carries herself like a Queen and wears her confidence like a Crown. Royalty or not, Dignity and Respect are every ladys birthright. Its a mans job to respect a woman but, its a womans job to give him something to respect. So my dear youngladies, pleasae know thy worth! Once you know your worth, then.... you are in a position to ask a man WHAT CAN HE DO FOR YOU, THAT YOU CANT DO FOR YOURSELF? If::;; **You pay your own bills. **Take care of your household without the help of any man…or woman for that matter. ........Then you are in the position to ask him, What can you bring to the table? LOL at this juncture, i know most of you will think im actually talking about, how much the man has got in his bank account.....honestly you are so wrong. LOL!!! Okay, let me quickly correct your thoughts by clearly stating what i meant by you asking him such questions. . . . .I am not referring to money. Younglady, you need something more. Something more assuring, dependable, humble, strong, matured and everlasting. -----Someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies, Deceit, Chauvinism and game-playing are not my idea of a Strong, Matured, Assuring, Humble, Dependable man----- You need a man who is not only matured and focused, but a man who is diligently striving for excellence in all ramifications of life.........LOL right now, i know the men will be anxious to know what exactly i mean by this. Oh well....... Younglady:;..... **You need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because, you need conversation and mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man. **You need s omeone who is Spiritually striving for excellence because, you don’t need to be unequally yoked....Believers mixed with Unbelievers is actually a great recipe for disaster. **You need a man who is Financially striving for excellence because, you don’t need a financial burden. **You need someone who is sensitive enough to understand exactly what, you go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep you grounded, without appearing to be indirectly domineering. You actually need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. You need someone whom you dont have to be forced to respect because, he is matured enough to always respect himself, hence you can always respect him. In order to be submissive, you must respect him... ... ...You cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business. I know you have no problem whatsoever with, being submissive…..he just has to be worthy of your being submissive. And by the way, you should not be looking for him…HE WILL FIND YOU. He will recognize himself in you. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he naturally, will always be drawn to you. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. You can’t help a man if he can’t help himself. Right now, i know the guys will be whinning that, the ladies are just asking for ALOT**shrugs**the honest truth is..........WE LADIES ARE WORTH ALOT......so my dear mr man, stop thinking you are doing her a favour by marrying her, in all honesty, you are not!
Posted on: Tue, 22 Apr 2014 21:45:37 +0000
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