The line in the Lord’s Prayer that reads, “Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors,” (Matthew 6:12) does not mean that we earn God’s forgiveness by forgiving other people. If that were true, then salvation would rest on good works, and faith would be unnecessary. Paul says, “It is by grace you have been saved, through faithand this not from yourselves, it is the gift of Godnot by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9). Our eternal debt was paid on the Cross once and for all. Nothing is outstanding. Forgiving others is not a payment toward our own forgiveness; it’s a sign of spiritual life. Once we have received God’s forgiveness in Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit lives in our hearts, it follows that we should become more forgiving of people. There are two sides to forgiving. The first is transforming your attitude toward the person who has offended you, and the second is transforming your relationship with the person who has offended you. Both take courage. The first takes courage because we much prefer to go on clinging to our resentment. That way, we have a scapegoat. When things go wrong, we can say, “Well, that’s because of so-and-so and the awful thing he did to me.” It’s childish, yet we find the habit incredibly hard to break. Most of the time the best we can manage is to “forgive but not forget”which is not good at all because “not forgetting” reserves our right to bring the matter up again whenever we please. Real forgiveness has no memory. It does not shut other people into the locker of their past mistakes. It makes room for a genuine, fresh start. Often, this transformation of attitude is all we need to transform the relationship. Father, help me to transform my attitude toward those who have offended me and give me the courage to transform my relationship with them. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.
Posted on: Mon, 17 Nov 2014 18:00:14 +0000
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