The truth is: u will never meet society expectations. Uthole umnwana usemncane ,bathi “uyisfebe” be a good gal in the eyes of ur parents and the community because u don’t want them to know you dating until ur BF evela kini n then you fall pregnant before that bathi”umithiswe hama khabethe or curtains..... ulinde before marriage to have a child bathi”uyinyumba or kudala wazi”flusher ematoilet izingane” The same society watches you grow into a fine young man or woman after every effort to escape the situation at home, watched you go to school n torn clothes and on an empty stomach and even used words like”shame” but all of a sudden when you made it in life you owe them. YOU OWE THEM FAKE SMILES,R 2 and they are never satisfied no matter how many times you give. When you buy a car you must lift,when u cant”uyachoma or uzenza ncono’(ofcoz uncono) U cant pass driving without greeting and by greeting i don’t mean”hooting” coz wen u “hoot” still uyachoma, must park you car uphume and ublomer nabi and still mawublomer you have too choose what you say to them otherwise”uzenzancono” yoooo angeke it is just too much....worse should you decide to just pass amagents ekhoneni coz u in a hurry, u in deep shit, all kind of curses will be thrown at you , u must also allow kids to throw stuff at your car because abazali bazogigiyela”suka eyimontweni zabantu uyihlo akana monto” euwww madoda!!!! Then u decide to wed your sweetheart, thats is wen they start showing interest in your age and relationship with you fiancé so that find something negative to help them drink tea,they turn into marriage expects only to find even their parents where never married. Waya ngabo u will never achieve anything in life as you will be living ur life and their life trying to fit in, u can never please everyone. If you are in a bad mood...DLULA WITHOUT GREETING u ddnt sign a contract with anyone, get married wen u feel ready, thola ingane mekufuna wena isibeletho hesakho moes and yes that car is yours not for umphakathi,give lift because you want to not because u feel obliged. with society u just never win Abantu base kasi niphilisana kabuhlungu hai...!!!!!!! *sits down*
Posted on: Thu, 02 Oct 2014 07:33:00 +0000
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