The vast majority of parents around the world spank their children. The statistics vary greatly, depending on what study you read. But one thing that most of the studies agree on is that most parents say they don’t want to spank their kids. However, many parents do spank when they feel as theyve run out of options. Perhaps they’re exasperated and overwhelmed by behavioral issues or they feel that other discipline strategies just arent working. However, there are alternative discipline strategies that can be more effective than spanking without risking the long-term effects that corporal punishment can have on children. 1. Time Out If you hit your child because he becomes aggressive, it gives a mixed message. Instead of spanking, try time out. Time out takes kids out of the situation and away from the scene of the crime. It can be an excellent way to teach kids how to calm themselves down, which is a useful life skill. Time out is a great discipline strategy to deal with aggression and non-compliance. 2. Taking Away Privileges Although a spanking only stings for a minute or two, taking away a privilege hurts longer. Take away the TV, video games, his favorite toy or a fun activity for the day and he’ll have a reminder not to repeat the misbehavior. When you take away privileges, make it clear when the privileges can be earned back. Usually one day is enough time to give a child the opportunity to regain his privileges. Flower Revolution By.Christies
Posted on: Mon, 13 Oct 2014 01:37:08 +0000
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