The words "disconnect emotionally from Aspie comments..." really strikes me. It took me forever to realize that some of the things I said hurt people, some of the things I did made them very upset, even though I was just saying or doing something that made what I felt was an honest reflection of a given situation in a given context. Over the years, I learned to develop a technique that helps me remember when I should or should not make a type of response, and how to self-edit the content and style of delivery. I have seen other versions of this technique, but this is mine: BEFORE SPEAKING ASK: 1) Is it true? 2) Is it necessary? 3) Is it KIND? 4) (and this is the most important) Is it the right time? I fail spectacularly at living up to this Ideal on a daily basis. I recommend everyone to aim for at least a few fails, as it means you are trying, and learning.
Posted on: Sun, 18 Aug 2013 05:16:21 +0000
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