There are 4 reasons behind my refusal of all the matrimonial matches that came till date. (1) Adopting a girl child was always my priority ever since I was in school. Almost anyone can give birth, but no joy than to give an abandoned child a Mother. The matches that came, had issues with my view-point. Some parents were so grotesque as to tell me that one I had my Own child, Id have cared less for my adopted daughter because thats Biology. Such narrow-minded intolerant people have no ability to come into my life. (2) In the very 1st telephonic discussion, the parent asked my Mother, Whats your daughters salary, given she is from IIM Calcutta? Do they want ME or my bank balance? (3) Many failed to understand my passion for my babies & the fact that Im their Mother, not their Owner. It was useless trying to make them understand. (4) Finally. Most matches came for men who are permanently settled outside India & will never return. A man who can abandon his elderly parents & settle abroad, can he really be as responsible as I myself am? Does he indeed love his parents as I myself do? And he, who cant love their parents who gave birth to him, how can he love me - whom he met only for such short time? I know, I know right now many people will claim reasons behind their overseas settlement & cite all kinds of Explanations - that settling abroad doesnt mean theyre not responsible, blah blah blah. But truth doesnt change. When the parents need the son to be with them, beside them, a mere telephonic conversation can never be a perfect substitute for physical presence, assurance & love. Careerist men, however, are full of Explanation that makes no sense to me, a non-materialistic girl. Under NO condition will I deviate from my principles, even if that means I stay unmarried. I dont mind staying unmarried than living with someone who doesnt understand the real me. After all, I dont need to gain anything by marriage - Ive achieved what even most men fail to, despite getting all scopes, chances, support & stability from their family & parents. I can happily do without being a wife as long as I am a caring, responsible & loving Mother.
Posted on: Tue, 08 Apr 2014 05:34:30 +0000
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