There is perhaps no other higher vibration for your life than that of unconditional self-acceptance. Just today I heard it said that self-acceptance is a refusal to be in an adversarial relationship with yourself. I like that. Yet so many of us make self-acceptance conditional -- meaning well finally accept ourselves once we lose weight, get married, have kids, become enlightened, manifest all of our vision board, stop aging, stop self-sabotaging, stop all our addictions, do more yoga, volunteer more, get out of debt, etc etc etc. What can you add here? What do you think you need to do to finally be able to accept yourself? Just know that whatever you add to that list makes your self-acceptance conditional. Which isnt really self-acceptance at all, its perfectionism driven by shame. Take a moment and take a breath. Can you just simply accept yourself as you are right now? I didnt say you had to like everything about your life or yourself, but can you accept it? What about Life and yourself cant you unconditionally be with? What do you create out of this resistance? I know for myself that this resistance has only ever created suffering, lower esteem, leaving the moment, and feelings of failure -- while fueling my perfectionism. Things dont tend to shift for me until I finally surrender and say I am who I am, I am where Im at...and Im OK with that - so is God. You may not always get want you want or accept yourself, but the Universe loves you anyway. And you are right where youre meant to be in your life plan and soul growth. Whatever happens or doesnt in your life isnt about your intrinsic insane off the charts WORTH. YOU ARE OK!! Yes...YOU! So see what you can accept about yourself and life today. What can just be OK? Sometimes we have to begin by accepting that we cant accept ourselves as is! So maybe start there. Take a chance and give up this adversarial relationship with yourself. Dont let your next step be based on fixing yourself, let it be a step of unconditional self-acceptance. See where that takes you and watch the miracles happen!! :)
Posted on: Mon, 18 Aug 2014 18:55:43 +0000
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