Theres no such thing as a perfect relationship.Even if it seems perfect now,it wont always be. Imperfection,however,is real and beatiful.The quality of th happines between two people grows in direct propotion to their acceptance,and in inverse proportion to their intolerance and expectations.Its how two people accept and deal with the imperfections of their relationship that make it ideal. Of course,this doesnt mean that you have to accept every0ne into your life who is willing to accept you,even if they are obviously not right for you. But it does mean that if there are occational difficulties in your relationship,you dont have to jump to the bold conclusion that the entire relationship is bad,and become so distressed that the relationship ends,or so insecure that the other person questions your intentions. No meaningful relationship will always work flawlessly all tgje time.Being too black and white about the quality and health of a relationship speels trouble.There will always be difficulties present but you can still focus on the good.Insecure people constantly lo0k for the signs of whats not working in their relationships,What you need to do is look for signs of what is. Having an appreciatin for how remarkable the people in your life are leads to good places,productive,fulfilling,peaceful places.Notice their strong qualities,cheer for their victories,and encorage their goals and ambittions. Challege them to be the best they can be.Every day,aknowledge just how amazing they are. Leave a little sparkle wherever you go. Ghine
Posted on: Tue, 15 Jul 2014 06:23:11 +0000
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