They say...you gotta bring some ___ to get some ___...... Well let me expand on that little principle a bit and break it down for those not in the know... The same holds true for LOVE...!!! You have to give some LOVE in order to get some LOVE....sounds like a no brainer....but you might be shocked by how many people cannot truly comprehend this principle even when they hear it... On the other hand some get it...but can never do much more than simply understand the fact...because basically.... LOVE is not an emotion that is common among the weak and selfish...!!! LOVE is an emotion that belongs to the courageous and the generous...scary weaklings and self consumed narcissist are just downright incapable of LOVING anyone including themselves...and even when they try they best they can muster up is mess of dysfunctional MESS... So you have to be brave to LOVE and of good courage...and you have to be strong....because you always run the risk of being hurt...but then again every time that you walk you take the risk of falling.... I mean Ijs.... And you cannot be selfish and self centered because LOVE is just as much about giving as it is receiving... Selfish people never give LOVE and they in turn never really feel LOVED. Even if you shower them with LOVE they still feel empty inside...this is because in order to receive and accept LOVE you have to give it.... But they are always the first ones to hollar out in complaint....Nobody LOVES me...but that is often not true...more often than not they just dont LOVE anyone...and as previously mentioned they often do not love themselves... This makes for a rather odd type of reciprocity of sorts because you can give LOVE even when you are not being LOVED in return...but you can never really feel LOVE until you give it...!!! LOVING a selfish person is like pouring water on a ducks back...it will roll right off without even getting wet...no matter what you do they still seem to feel unLOVED or not LOVED quite enough...they have an insatiable desire to be LOVED and often become LOVE junkies... But just like a crack fiend they can never seem to get enough... This is because they cannot grasp the fundamental concept...that to feel LOVED you must also give LOVE... Selfish people are often weak and afraid...that is what makes them selfish...they always take because they are afraid that they are somehow not getting enough...and the refuse to give for fear of coming up short in the end and afraid that they might have to take a loss for someone else... You have to have faith to give...and you have to have faith to LOVE... But a person who is weak and afraid obviously has no faith...only fear... Not only do selfish people often feel unLOVED even when they are...they are often too afraid to LOVE anyone else... Selfish people often have a victim complex...like a thief paranoid of being stolen from or a liar afraid of being lied to...a selfish person is always afraid of being used...to the point of paranoia! But when you give LOVE that comes from faith...you have no such fear... LOVE does not mean that you become a patsy or doormat....or let some one use or take advantage of you...but it often does require that you give without immediately worrying about what you are going to loose or get in return... You cannot be so selfish that you are afraid to bless anyone else because you fear that doing so will leave you short handed... You have to have faith that just like you are blessing them...God will bless you in turn. Protect your interests and your assets and do not disregard your responsibilities...but if you are too afraid to bless and anyone else...do not expect many blessings yourself... And if you are too selfish and afraid to LOVE someone else...you will never feel LOVE yourself... Even if you get lucky and find someone who LOVES you...it will never feel like enough or satisfy you... And you will drain that person like vampire until they have nothing else to give you... You cannot pick all of the fruit off of a tree....never water it...and then expect it to keep on bearing fruit. When you give true LOVE no one can cheat you....all they can do is cheat them self......No one can rob you.... all they can do is rob them self.....and no one can play you...all they can do is play themselves in the end... Those who are incapable of LOVING anyone because of fear and selfishness are just robbing cheating and playing themselves....yet they always feel like the victim who is coming up short..... https://youtube/watch?v=Qtkv0SCeXtY
Posted on: Tue, 13 Jan 2015 02:16:35 +0000
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