*Things You Need To Know Before Marriage* (1) If a man keeps your engagement with him out of the knowledge of his family members or is ashamed of introducing you before his people as his fiancée, then such a man is not yet convinced about it and not ready for marriage. (2) The ability of a young man you are in courtship with to have a peaceful relationship and communication without always complaining or being easily provoked or quarrelling all the time is a proof that he may be God’s will for you. He should be able to accommodate and understand you. A peaceful and successful courtship or marriage is just two people from different background accommodating one another. (3) The discovery that your fiancé is dating another lady is an indication that he is not yet convinced about your relationship. It is even an act of unfaithfulness and can initiate lying as he will be forced to claim that you are the only one. Such a man can abandon you at any moment. (4) If a man truly loves you, he will be ready to pay any price not only to win your love but to always make you happy when in courtship. Real loves restrains from anything that will offend or endanger the two parties. Real love is God ordained while lust is Satan instituted. (5) A young man who is ready for marriage will always want to know more about yourself and your family. He will always be willing to reveal his own life, ambition, and his family affairs to you, knowing fully well that you will certainly get married he will not conceal thing from you. (6) If you discover that your fiancée tells you lie about himself and his family, and then be sure that he has not made up his mind. He is a compromiser. (7) Any man intending to marry would first of all have a probable time or period in mind to wed his wife. He can’t just go and make marriage proposal to a lady after prayer and thoughtful assessment without premeditation on when to marry. Long term engagement is dangerous. An indefinite timetable depicts unseriousness and immaturity. Engagement longer than one year may also be a sign of unpurposeful. (8) One of the things a lady should use to know if a man truly wants to marry her is, his sincerity towards her not only by reason of her faith but for the fact that they would spend the rest of their life together. The ability to disclose his personal or secret life whether past, present or future ambition is an indication of commitment to the marriage. (9) One of the marriage keys for a lady to know if truly a man is ready for marriage is his inquisitiveness about the lady’s profession or business or education. It doesn’t end there he then make a sacrificial effort physically, morally, and financially to ensure the lady succeeds. The man would be ready to spend and invest on the lady’s development knowing fully well that her financial enlistment is for the well-being of their future family. A man who is giving excuses not to finance your educational pursuit for one irrelevant reason or the other is not serious and don’t have a resolute mind for marriage.
Posted on: Fri, 04 Jul 2014 12:09:47 +0000