Things change and people change, and sometimes it happens very quickly. If you find that you are making more effort in a relationship and that it is no longer fulfilling to make that effort then step back. Relationships are not about having it one way, or having to live up to another persons expectations of you. True loves accept what you can and cannot do and are there for you unconditionally. Sometimes space is what is needed, and sometimes relationships just end. If a relationship ends you can trust that it served its purpose for the time it was in your life, be grateful and then let it go. No one is worth chasing. Chasing is a game of hide and seek, and games are counter to love or truth. The truth is always in someones behavior. Observe what you see, look at the patterns and then step back.You should never try and be all of what someone else demands or expects of you to make them feel important. You need to be you. You need to live in your own truth of what and who you are. If someone truly loves you they will make you feel good in your truth. Nothing productive happens in stepping forward if someone is clearly backing away. If you really love yourself you will not stay in relationships which only benefit the other persons expectations, you will not stay where there is any kind of push pull, and you will not stay in a place where the effort is continually up to you. Love yourself because in letting go you make room for the new. Happy Sunday!
Posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2014 11:00:00 +0000
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