Things to Remember When You Think You’re Not Good Enough! Some days turn out better or worse than others – that’s a fact. But ultimately, the way we feel about our life and ourselves has the biggest impact on the outcome of each day. Happiness and confidence can create outcomes that exceed our expectations, like a continual ray of sunshine even on a cloudy day. But, when we are down on ourselves,especially when we think we are not good enough, life can easily and quickly take a turn for the worse. We can unexpectedly find ourselves entrenched in a deep, dark hole. When we repeatedly allow ourselves feel this way for days, weeks or even months at a time, it can have detrimental effects on our happiness, health, relationships, and careers. That’s why it’s best to prevent a self-esteem slide. Let’s put an end to the false reality of the negative belief, “you’re not good enough”! ALWAYS BEAR THESE IN MIND. 1. Life is about progress, not perfection. Strive for excellence! Life is perfectly imperfect. Striving for perfection is not necessarily a bad thing – it makes you reach higher and work harder. However, it’s a goal that can be rather unattainable and you will always be working on being “perfect”. 2. What you do right NOW can create a better outcome. Nothing is written in stone, unless it’s in the past. Even then we can change the way we perceive it. We can’t truly predict the future, because it’s ever changing based on what we do right now. 3. Positive thinking is your birthright. No matter what situation you are in, positive thinking can and will always come to your rescue if you allow it. The power of positivity is a gift to us from divine energy. Divine energy is nothing BUT positive energy. 4. There is more RIGHT with you than wrong with you. Even during your struggles, don’t forget to focus on your strengths. Too often our culture looks at each other’s “weaknesses” and wants to put focus on improving them. While having a balanced mind, body and soul is important some of our weaknesses exist to balance some of our greatest strengths. 5. Everyone makes mistakes! The positive perspectiveand the real truth about mistakes are that they are an opportunity to teach us something and allow us to grow. At times they can also point out our weaknesses so that we can grow stronger in that area. We are students here and mistakes are evidence we are trying and doing the best we can. 6. Remember you are exactly where you need to be right now. It may not seem like it, but the entire Universe has orchestrated itself to create your life where it is right now. It may not be where you want to be right now, but sometimes you have to go through a bit of bramble to get to the clover field. 7. Be kind and gentle with yourself. You’re doing the best you can. You don’t have to beat yourself up over not “getting there” fast enough, or as fast as the people you wish to be like. 8. You deserve your own unconditional love and forgiveness. Be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. 9. There’s always a solution, keep looking! Sometimes you might feel like you’ve reached the end of the road. Lucky for you, there’s always a small dirt path called faith that you can continue to follow when times get tough. 10. The only comparing and competing you should be doing is with yourself. There’s no need to try to compete or catch up with those who are in your field. Be the best version of YOU. Be the change you want to see in YOURSELF. Allow the future vision of YOU to be your hero. 11. You can’t always change things, but you can ALWAYS change the way you look at things. The present moment was created as a collective manifestation of your past thoughts, words and actions. Sometimes, this can be so tough that you may feel like you’re not good enough to get through it, and if you’re reflecting on the reality that you’ve created, it may even make you feel like you’re not good enough to handle your co-creative ability. The bottom line is that times can get tough – but there’s nothing wrong with believing you’re tougher. Because when you believe you ARE good enough to create the life you desire, and you believe that YOU ARE good enough to make it through any situation. Now, who was it that said you’re not good enough?
Posted on: Sun, 03 Aug 2014 22:37:54 +0000
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