Things you learn in life... you cannot make someone love you. - TopicsExpress



          

Things you learn in life... you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. ..that no matter how much I care, some people just dont care back. ...that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it. ....that its not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.. ....that you shouldnt compare yourself to the best others can do. ...that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. ...that its taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. ...that you can keep going long after you cant. ...that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. ...that either you control your attitude or it controls you. ...that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. ...that money is a lousy way of keeping score. ...that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. ...that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when youre down will be the ones to help you get back up. ..that sometimes when Im angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesnt give me the right to be cruel. ...that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. ...that just because someone doesnt love you the way you want them to doesnt mean they dont love you with all they have. ...that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences youve had and what youve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays youve celebrated. ...that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it. ...that your family wont always be there for you. It may seem funny, how people you arent related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families arent always biological. ...that no matter how good a friend is, theyre going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. ....that it isnt always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself. ...that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesnt stop for your grief. ...that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become. ...that just because two people argue, it doesnt mean they dont love each other And just because they dont argue, it doesnt mean they do. ...that we dont have to change friends if we understand that friends change. ...that you shouldnt be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever. ...that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. ...that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process. ...that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who dont even know you. ...that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help. ,..that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. ...that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. ...that its hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting peoples feelings and standing up for what you believe.
Posted on: Thu, 11 Sep 2014 14:43:36 +0000

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