This. If youre confused about your life at all, dont suck people into that. If youre not sure who you are, if youre not sure you can be in a relationship or youre not sure what you want out of life then do not bring someone else into that. If you feel like something is missing from yourself, a person will not fill that hole. If you feel you need validation from others, you will never get enough. If you believe all you need to be happy is the perfect person, you will never find them. If you dont know who you are, you will change for everyone around you and be that much further from figuring it out. Take some time to figure your own things out completely and alone. Spend time getting to know, understand and accept yourself and everything else will fall into place. If you dont take my advice on this then remember this one last thing; nobody else deserves what youll do to them. Because you need validation and will accept it from any source, you will make this person doubt theyre worth and your feelings for them. If you make that person the sole reason for your happiness, you will always be upset with them and always be unhappy and they will doubt their worth even more. If you change into what you think they want, you will grow to resent them because you feel they dont love you for who you are and you cant be honest with them. In some cases theres the added bonus of keeping the relationship a secret for whatever reason. NO ONE deserves to be kept a secret and aside from a very few select cases, there is no reason to force someone to hide a part of themselves like that. If you want their attention then they deserve enough respect that they dont have to hide from other people in order to get your attention in return. If youre going to play with a heart, own it and be open and honest about it. Basically, my rant can be summarized by Dont be a shitty person and break every heart you can touch just because theres something wrong with you. Be a good person to yourself and give yourself time to figure things out, and be a good person to others by being straight up, honest and keeping in mind that they have a heart that can be broken too. (by the lovely Rhiannon Stark)
Posted on: Wed, 15 Oct 2014 01:32:35 +0000
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