This bond, this joining, is not ment to be a fetter. A joining is a partnership, not two people becoming one. Two minds cannot fuse, two souls canmot merge, two hearts cannot keep to the same time. If two are foolish enough to try this, one must overwhelm the other, and that is not love, nor is it compassion, nor responsibility. You are two who choose to walk the same path, to bridge the differences between you with love. You must remember and respect those differences and learn to understand them, for they are part of what made you come to love in the first place. Love is patient, love is willing to compromise-love is willing to admit it is wrong. There will be hard times; you must face them as bound warriors do, side by side, not using the weapon of your knowledge to tear at eachother. There will be sadness as well as joy, and you must support one another through the grief and sorrow. There will be pain-but pain shared is pain halved, as joy shared is joy doubled, and you each must sacrifice your own comfort to share the pain of the other. And yet, you must do all this and manage to keep eachother from wrong actions, for a joining means that you also pledge to help one another at all times. You must lead eachother by example. Guide and be willing to be guided. Being joined does not mean that you accept what is truely wrong; being joined means that you must strive that you both remain in the light and the right. You must not pledge yourselves thinking that you can change each other. That is rankest folly, and disrespectful, for no one has the right to change another. You must not pledge yourselves thinking that there will be no strife between you. That is fantasy, for you are two and not one, and there will inevitably come conflict that it will be up to you to resolve. You must not pledge yourselves thinking that all will be well from this moment on. That is a dream, and dreamers must eventually wake. You must come to this joining fully ready, fully committed, and fully respectful of eachother. - Rainlance, from the novel, OwlSight, by Mercedes Lackey, and Larry Dixon.
Posted on: Tue, 25 Mar 2014 18:53:49 +0000
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