This is real talk because many people these days, especially young people, focus on the wrong thing in a marriage or in a relationship. We focus on the outside. Then eventually, after a period of time, we realize that the person we chose has little or no substance on the inside and its too late because we have partnered with them already when we should have taken the time to really get to know them instead of quickly jumping into the sack! Partnering with someone includes a spiritual, intellectual and emotional connection in addition to a physical one. But as a rule, we generally focus on the physical in the beginning. Then, later we find out that we are mismatched and its sometimes too late to make any good of the relationship and too late to become one because becoming one involves much more than the physical! Becoming ONE is Spiritual, mental/intellectual and emotional. If those connections are not in place, having the physical only will FADE and there will be a giant void because without God, there is no such thing as love! But WITH GOD, the love connection (spiritual connection) comes first! We do it backwards!
Posted on: Sun, 14 Dec 2014 04:07:53 +0000