This is so completely accurate. Perhaps, this is why some of us are our own worst enemies. I know when to own my own stuff, but sometimes I own it for others as well. Especially when it comes to my children. So many times, I have made situations out to be my fault ( intentionally) and not the fault of others (whom are truly to blame) just to simply spare that other person. There is no reason for it, the other person deserves to be known for who and what he truly is and for years I covered it up...Putting it all on me. Now I am the one that is disrespected and hurt inside because I felt at the time, over the years that my approach would be best. It was the best...set up for my own ruin. Be careful with your heart and the constant need to be the good guy and to always help others no matter what you feel toward them. Learn to say no, and NEVER own (taking responsibility for) anything that truly is not yours to own. It will destroy you inside, A bad habit of mine that is quite difficult to correct so just dont fall in to it. And for those of you who thrive on passing the buck and not owning your shit....Knock it off. Be true to yourself as well as others, it is the only way to maintain a healthy balance. Our true enemies, as well as our true sources of strength, lie within. -- Willaru Huayta, QUECHUA NATION, PERU A long time ago, the Creator put inside the human being the secrets to the laws of life. We usually know this is true even though we may not know what these laws are. If something goes wrong with our lives, we usually fix the blame on something outside of ourselves. We tend to give up accountability. One way or another we say, Its not my fault. We need to realize that all permanent and lasting change starts on the inside and works its way out. If its meant to be, it is up to me. Oh Great Spirit, let me realize fully that my problems are of my own making. Therefore, so are the solutions.
Posted on: Fri, 23 Jan 2015 20:26:28 +0000
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