This will have a lot of people mad at me, but we need to talk about it more. Not be so angry or scared. If we want it to stop, love is the only way. I am not afraid. What bothers me the most is how people are quick to demonize the aggressor. Rather than trying to calm him down and help him regain his rationale, they just attack him and his actions. No one even attempted to stop the female. Maybe years of men taking that kind of abuse helps turn them into the abusers America hates.... Furthermore, what about helping people who get aggressive and violent in the moment by being the kind of calm and self control you expect them to be? Be the change you want to see. People dont apologize out of shame, and people make honest mistakes. People are aggressive because that is how they were treated. hating them for that will only further alienate them and we will get what we see from the last school shooter, full of hate for not being understood by specific group. #doublestandard. https://youtube/watch?v=u3PgH86OyEM
Posted on: Tue, 03 Jun 2014 22:07:09 +0000