Those who utterly exhaust themselves attempting to get someone they care about to change more times than not make themselves crazier and the other person worse. Such people are obsessed with this idea that their love for the person they’re trying to change is actually powerful enough to break whatever habits the other person is afflicted with. To believe in such falsehoods is to be dangerously naïve. The only way I know of loving a dysfunctional person into getting well is to allow them to learn from the consequences of their habits. While this way of expressing love is more painful than the other it’s also more powerful. It wakes people up to what he or she is doing to them selves and gives them the willingness to make changes in themselves that they would not make otherwise. Loving people in this is not for the faint of heart but for those with the courage to try OMG does the dynamite boom. like this 4 more #BGTD!
Posted on: Tue, 30 Dec 2014 02:30:00 +0000