To all of my FB lady friends who are going through a rough time right now with relationships...... Please keep in mind that being in a bad relationship is worse then not being in a relationship at all. It takes more than love to make it work long term. It takes mutual respect, mutual support, compromise, sacrifice, common goals, devotion to each other and thinking of your partner before yourself. With true love there are no double standards. With true love there is no keeping score. If you are devoting 100% of your efforts into a relationship and your partner is only devoting 20% it will never work. It is becoming more and more difficult to find young males who are raised to respect and protect women. Or males that are raised to be gentlemen. They do exist. But it takes time to find them. Women as a rule have great intuition. Please do not be afraid to listen to it. Pay attention to the red flags. If you find after some time that you are dealing with an insensitive, immature, insecure overgrown child? Scrape him off. Thats just the tip of the iceberg. It will only get worse. Until he realizes for himself that he needs to behave like a man to keep a good woman, nothing will change. Your efforts to try and change him will be a lesson in futility. Real men are neither threatened, nor do they try to compete with a strong independent women. They prefer them. You must be true to yourself first to find the right man. A man will only treat you badly if you allow him to. If he cheats. He will cheat again. If he is physically, verbally or emotionally abusive? Hell do it again. Real men do not strike women. Real men do not cheat. Real men do not try to humiliate women in front of their friends. Nor do they try and strip them of their dignity and self esteem. Real men dont care if you have a perfect body. Or how perfect you look in the morning. Or in a swim suit. The care about the women herself. And the women who is true to herself first. If your relationship doesnt work and you call it quits? Dont beat yourself up. Trust your instincts and stay true to yourself. If you feel you made mistakes? Better yourself and move on. Dont wallow in self pity. Dont look at it as a failure or wasted time. Look at it as a life experience that made you smarter for the next time around. And in the meantime enjoy your new found freedom. Walk with your head high. Live every day to the fullest. Your only young once. Your time will come when you least expect it. It did for me?! Ive never been happier. Women who are enjoying life are much more attractive to real men. They will embrace it. If you stay with a loser, youll end up a loser too. If you settle for less then you deserve. Less is what youll get. If you allow yourself to be mistreated, mistreated is what you will be. Tell your ex to f*** off and go have some fun. Im done lecturing now. Im just someone who happens to care?
Posted on: Thu, 28 Aug 2014 02:24:53 +0000