To all the singles out there, are you dateable? Are you ready for marriage? Obviously, every single person would like to have a date at some point of their lives and consequently get married. Let me share some hard truth with you. Are you ready for this, take a deep breath! You are not truly ready for marriage or relationship until you dont need anyone. First you must learn to live by yourself, love yourself, value yourself, manage yourself very well, be happy with yourself and enjoy your own company before you find somebody else. If you are pursuing a relationship or cant wait to get married because you are lonely, broke and empty, you are like a parasite looking for a host. You are very dangerous! 😳 Lets get deeper: If you dont value yourself, you hate you, you harm yourself and and do not love you, you are definitely not dateable. You are not dateable if you are still full of insecurities and have no vision for your life. If you have financial problems, cant provide for yourself, cant pay your own bills and you are a needy person, who would like to date you and eventually marry you? If you allow yourself to be depressed, frustrated and sceptical about life, you are definitely asking to be left alone. Good character, good habits, loving yourself and being able to provide for yourself makes you highly dateable. High self-esteem, faith, hope and disciplined life style are some of the qualities that would make you to be a wonderful person. If you know how to manage your life, you have good plans for your future, you are happy and feel complete even when being alone, then YOU ARE READY to be in a relationship, you are dateable and happier will be the one who will marry you. You will be an asset to someone-else rather than a deficit. Finally, If I were you, I would run away from people that keep saying that they are bored, lonely, have financial problems, are depressed, they dont know what they want in life, they feel incomplete and so they want someone to complete them. Are you dateable? Do you love yourself? Galatians 5:14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” In other words you can not love anyone else if you dont love yourself first. You can only love others as you love yourself.
Posted on: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 17:55:25 +0000
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