To love and to be loved—is that really the answer? It’s not as simple as we want to make it sometimes. There are so many different types of love, and as intuitive, sensitive women we need to learn to recognize them in ourselves and in others. We can then go into a relationship clear on what intentions we are sending out into the universe. Love is my gift, my specialty, and I am here to guide people down the highest path to love. Not always the easiest task, right? Here’s an analogy that I came up with to show the different types of love and relationships that we as humans can have, and how ironically we are still very raw and animal… 1. There is a Tiger in every woman, just as there is GOD in us all. We are the embodiment of everything around. We just don’t quite see it on the surface, but our unconscious acts it out with every person we choose. The Tiger Woman. She is beautiful, wild, protective. She is agile, she is sleek when she is caged. She paces back and forth ready to attack. The Watcher is the first type of man. He wants to learn from the Tigress. He knows in his heart that he loves the Tigress, but because of the type of man the Watcher is, he doesn’t know that the Tiger is free, so he doesn’t really learn. A Watcher is a man who is usually married, in a relationship or just goes for or attracts women who are in relationships. They want so badly to be loved, but know that in the wild the Watcher and the Tiger would react completely differently to each other—but in captivity, through glass or bars, the watcher feels protected, like he can learn… but he really never gets to know the Tigress or really be able to let her love him, because he’s scared to be scratched, bitten or worse… 3. The Poacher is one of the worst. He stalks his prey in their natural habitat; he gets to know the Tiger. He allows the Tiger to be comfortable with his scent before he even lets her know there is danger. These are the men that just want to take. What can you give me? What can you do for me? You are his trophy, not his wife or even lover. The characteristics are just material and surface. He wants the Tigress because she is a prize… not for her depths. Before the Tigress knows it, she is skinned or stuffed, or left with a broken heart to heal or mend. The Poacher wants the light within the wild, fearless part of the Tigress, and he thinks that if he can skin her he can see what’s in the depths of her soul, but he doesn’t want to share it. He wants it for his own. The last and, of course, my favorite is the Tarzan—the wild, fearless man who wants to understand the Tigress. He doesn’t want to watch her; he wants to be a part of her world. He wants to be among her so badly that he’s not even concerned with how bad she could possibly hurt or even kill him. He gets scratched, he gets bit, but he still stays because he knows that now there’s a possibility of a life and a love greater than he is. He took the time to be among her life, to see into her soul, to understand her world, and now they can start their path… of bringing their worlds together. Masculine and feminine. As women, we need to look within ourselves and see the truly powerful Goddess that lives in there. Than we can see through the lies. We need to understand that we are meant to lead men back to their hearts, but we have to see ourselves first as the Tigress, the Goddess, the Maiden… whatever you want to call her. As men, you have to be honest with what you want for yourself and your love life. Are you willing to get hurt? Are you willing to be patient? Love is here for everyone. Be willing to look within yourself and see what you really are.
Posted on: Tue, 02 Jul 2013 11:54:15 +0000