Today On Chloes Inbox.... Hi, DJ Chloe. Im sending you this letter in hopes of finding the best advice for my situation right now. I only have a few friends, only acquaintances; so pakiramdam ko parang kulang pa rin yung mga advice nila sa akin at puro na lang sila move on na, pre, makakalimutan mo rin yan etc. You see, a year ago, my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. At first, I didnt have a clue as to why she did it. Ang natatandaan ko na lang e bigla siyang nanlamig, then a few weeks later, she asked for a cool-off (with the usual I need to find myself excuse). After a month of waiting, I confronted her angrily and thus led to our eventual breakup. Hindi ko maintindihan kung gaano kadali para sa isang tao na itapon ang isang relationship -- lalo na kung 8 years nang kayo. Alam kong hindi ako ang the best na boyfriend pero ang masakit pa lalo dito is that were already planning to get married... Last January, I decided to meet up with her for a proper closure, and found out that shes leaving for Dubai to work there. Sobrang sakit. I cried like a little kid to my mom when I got home that night. Pakiramdam ko, kalahati ng buhay ko ang nawala. I tried my best to move on. Kumuha ako ng sarili kong bahay, kumuha din ako ng mas magandang trabaho sa industry (after working at the academe for 7 years). Andami nang nireto sa akin, pero hanggang ngayon, siya pa rin ang hinahanap ko. Hinabol-habol ko pa siya sa Facebook hanggang sa blinock na niya ako eventually... Hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko. Its been a year already, and I feel that this is not normal anymore... To be honest, Im actually thinking of flying to Dubai this December to win her back (kahit di ko alam kung may iba na siya dun or wala). Should I continue this fight or drop the game already because its not worth it anymore? Please help... -SP
Posted on: Mon, 20 Oct 2014 02:41:40 +0000