Today was an absolute disaster! I met her Our Lady in Transition 4 months ago yesterday and these have been the most frustrating months of my life. Nothing went right about today aside from seeing her apartment clean. We went to the shelter Lawyer and after both of us trying to make her understand the need to sign the paper, we got nowhere. She gave us the “In a month I will sign, Let me think about it, I do not need medical” She also said “She will go back to her country Russia for the holidays” and when asked how she would get there. She said, “Paula will give her money to go” (This another big broken reality example) The back and a forth for an hour trying to get her to understand was a true waste. The only comfort I have is the fact that I know I have tried my best. She needs to be declared mentally incompetent. She needs to have a judge give someone “Power of Attorney” over her or the courts somehow work a way to get her the medical and support she clearly needs. After she had enough of talking to us, she walked out and the Lawyer and I had a conversation that still leaves me with little options. We both tried, I spent the rest of the ride home in the car with her listening to her tell me “My Brother that had no brain, Italians have a lot of kids. Those with a lot of kids are poor and uneducated” She was lucky, I know she is mentally ill, but I have never been so annoyed dealing with someone. The twisted, demented stuff out of her mouth I have heard for months. When I write it, it is so hard to clearly paint a picture of the demented tone she uses, the break she has with reality is so clear. She will remain on the streets forever and never get help unless she has someone court appoint someone to take care of her. These are the only options I have - 1) Send her to the streets now and continue to pay rent until March. 2) See if the apartment can be rented out prior to end of lease 3) Be stressed out for a burden I wish was NEVER given to me. 4) See if someone can petition the state for her to get declared mentally incompetent. This is the series of bad days! Yesterday was bad and another issue I am still too tired to get into with her. Today, was just a reminder of the burden she is. The glimmers of her being sane and rational are very slim. We left off with her walking away from me clutching her bags in Mahopac. This was after Kenny P her old friend told her she could stay with him temporarily if she signed the forms and after she got support she could have the apartment. I said, she could stay in apartment now if she signs. She walked out of the house and went back to his truck she would sleep in like Oscar the Grouch and realized the door was locked. I walked over to talk to her with a little guitar in my hand Kenny gave me for donation. She says after our heated back and forth with the insults she slung What are we going to do? Play the Guitar? Ugh!!!! Last I saw her she was walking down Route 6N and I left! She will probably make it to Kenny Ps house the guy she knew for the night! I will call in the am and tell him he either drops her off in Mt. Kisco Shelter, lets or stay with him or I drop her off. I am not putting her back into the apartment unless she signs the papers. Joann, if you are reading this call me tonight (914) 299-2106 and let me know about # 4 on the list above or any other options!
Posted on: Sat, 13 Dec 2014 00:02:27 +0000
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