Todays angry devas we gonna talk about Mother. And imma try NOT to cry. But i WEEP whenever i think of Mama. And what we have lost. Oh i always knew it. But my knowing was being caged in rage. There are 5 stages of Grief: 1. Denial and Isolation The first reaction to learning of a loss is to deny the reality of the situation. It is a normal reaction to rationalize overwhelming emotions. It is a defense mechanism that buffers the immediate shock. We block out the words and hide from the facts. This is a temporary response that carries us through the first wave of pain. 2. Anger As the masking effects of denial and isolation begin to wear, reality and its pain re-emerge. We are not ready. The intense emotion is deflected from our vulnerable core, redirected and expressed instead as anger. The anger may be aimed at inanimate objects, complete strangers, friends or family. Anger may be directed at our loss. We are angry that it happened. Seeking SOMEONE TO BLAME FOR HOW WE GOT HERE. Rationally, we know the person is not to be blamed. Emotionally, however, we may resent the person for causing us pain or for leaving us. We feel guilty for being angry, and this makes us more angry. Remember, grieving is a personal process that has no time limit, nor one “right” way to do it. 3. Bargaining The normal reaction to feelings of helplessness and vulnerability is often a need to regain control– 4. Depression Two types of depression are associated with mourning. The first one is a reaction to practical implications relating to the loss. Sadness and regret predominate this type of depression. We worry about this or that.... Trying to make sense of the thing. 5. Acceptance When in application to healing and transformation, acceptance simply means RECOGNITION AND ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF THE NATURE OF A THING. also acting accordingly. I accept that many people are still asleep to the illusion. That black wombn even are believers in a male god i can accept. I do NOT LIKE IT because i do not like her bowing to falsehood. But i remember when i was her. So i get that she has to wake up. On her own. And i am simply here for those awakening and on the path to awaken. And its all a bit hard. But we understand it better by and by.
Posted on: Mon, 31 Mar 2014 15:13:47 +0000
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