Trust is a tricky thing and a foundation of every healthy relationship, it my be strong yet very fragile, it takes a great effort and time to build , but it can be broken quckly , here a few way to build it OR ( rebuild it) 1>DONT KEEP SECRETS, *for they are as dangerous as lies , never have a conversation you wouldnt want yo partner to hear, complete transparence is vital to building complete trust. 2.RECOGNIZE THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN FORGIVENESS & TRUST , *the two a different things, when youve been wronged, you should give forgiveness instantly [which is grace] but you should give your trust slowly (which is sense ) forgiveness by its nature can not be earned , i can only be give and trust by its nature can not be given but it can only be earned, 3>BE CONSISTENT *when you are in a process of rebuilding trust , do your very best to be consistent in your words & actions ,consistency brings security & security eventually brings trust. 4>IT TAKES TIME *when an arm is broken, it has to be put in a cast to restrict its motion, so it can have time to heal, when youve broken the trust, you must be willing to give time for healing to take place. dont expect things to get better overnight , 1 WOMEN SAID my partner still doent understand that just because i forgave him that doent mean im going to trust him 100%
Posted on: Tue, 14 Oct 2014 12:06:37 +0000
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