Two energies that complicate and sometimes sabotage relationship are perception and projection. I perceive that my friend values material things more than our relationship. I project that my friend is just like my grandfather. Within moments I am upset, overwhelmed and engaged in relationship conflict. Pausing to balance my perceptions and projections before acting on them can save the day. Asking myself what I KNOW to be true about my dear one helps. I know my friend shares many of my same passions and dislikes. I know my friend struggles on the material plane. I know my friend would like to know about my insecurities. Suddenly I am confident in my ability to have a conversation that deepens the friendship and alleviates my overwhelm. I have anchored my perceiving in what I KNOW, eliminating the need to project onto my friend at all!
Posted on: Fri, 13 Sep 2013 14:46:28 +0000